Ladies, let’s talk about a subtle but powerful shift that can change the way your dates feel, for both you and him.

Here’s the truth: if you want a man to open the door for you, you have to create the space for him to do it. That means… simply not doing it yourself. Yes, it really is that simple.

In today’s fast-paced world, many women are used to taking charge, at work, at home, in life. And that’s something to be proud of. But when it comes to dating, especially in heterosexual dynamics, there’s often a natural rhythm that works best when we allow some polarity between “being” and “doing.”

Men, generally speaking, don't want to compete with women, they want to show up for them. Yet if you’re always a step ahead, taking care of every little thing (like opening the door), there’s no room for him to step in.

So, here’s a fun experiment to try on your next date:
As you walk toward the door of the restaurant or venue, pause for a moment. Let him take the lead. Step back just enough to give him the cue that you’re open to being cared for in this small, sweet way. Let him open the door. 

It’s not about being passive, it’s about being present and receptive. You’re not losing your power; you’re inviting partnership.

Give it a try and let me know how it goes. This small shift can open more than just a door, it can open the space for connection, effort, and masculine energy to flow your way.

Did you know there are said to be seven types of love in some cultures? Which one resonates with you the most in your current state of being?

Eros:

Passionate, physical attraction, often linked to romantic desire.

Philia:

Affectionate love based on shared values and mutual respect, typically found in close friendships.

Storge:

Natural affection within family, like the bond between parents and children.

Agape:

Selfless, unconditional love for all beings, often regarded as the highest form of love.

Ludus:

Playful, non-committal love, often tied to flirting and casual relationships.

Pragma:

Practical, long-term love based on shared goals and compatibility, often seen in mature relationships.

Philautia:

Love for oneself, self-esteem, and personal well-being.